Who Are You
When You stop running?
Six-month mentorship for men done performing
You wake up. The dread is already there.
You move through the day performing competence. Performing okayness. Performing the version of yourself that keeps things running smoothly.
You come home and perform there too. In your relationship. With your kids. With yourself.
Something in you is crawling, slowly, toward death while you're still alive.
This isn't a crisis. That would be easier. This is the slow erosion of a man who stopped asking what he actually wants and started managing what he has.
If this is where you are, there's still time. But only if you take radical responsibility for your life.
here’s what shifts
You stop apologizing for taking up space.
Your voice changes. Quieter where it used to be loud. Louder where it used to be quiet. The people around you notice before you do.
You stop performing in your own life. The way you agree when you don't. The way you shrink in the conversation you should be leading. The way you move through your own home like a guest.
You start making life happen instead of waiting for it to change.
Some relationships get harder before they get honest. The ones worth keeping feel it. They stop getting the performance and start getting you. That's the thing you've been trying to give them all along.
The work isn't about becoming someone new. It's about trusting the man you already are, enough to let him be seen.
HOW WE WORK
We go into the wound. We find what you've been protecting against for years. We bring those parts of you back into contact with your actual life: your relationships, your body, your purpose.
Not as a project. As a man.
It shows up first in your body, then in your relationships, then in everything else.
THE ARC
months 1-2: foundatioN
We break the unconscious pattern. Identify the core wounds driving your choices. Build your capacity to feel without drowning.
months 3-4: integration
You practice new ways of being in real life - under real pressure, with real people. We navigate the resistance that comes when you start changing.
months 5-6: embodiment
You're living from choice rather than reaction. Relationships shift. Work shifts. You stop leading from fear.
ongoing: maintenance
Monthly check-ins available. Advanced intensives. Alumni community.
Investment
$15,000 for the six-month container. Includes weekly sessions, between-session access, and ongoing alumni circle.
Payment plan available and can be discussed during the discovery call.
Three seats open at a time. When they're full, they're full.
This work is for you if:
You feel successful on the outside and hollow on the inside
You're in relationship crisis and know the individual work has to come first
You're a leader who needs to stop performing and start living
You're ready to be pushed, and to push yourself
This work is not for you if:
You want a quick fix
You're unwilling to feel discomfort
You're looking for someone to fix you rather than guide you
I have relied on Ish for the past year in navigating the blurry waters of relationship to women, my addictions, and deep inner work. He's helped me move through stuck-ness, smallness and depression to unlock my fire; my voice, vitality, rage, and passion. His deeply attuned listening and compassion have held my grief and sadness.
Garrett Rokosh, therapist
The processes that we embarked were gut wrenching, soul cleansing, and felt like giving birth. The space that Ish holds is of true reverence to something deeper than many of us can touch, but only feel in our bones. It's been one of the greatest periods of my life. I would recommend him to anyone looking for a deeper dive into their soul.
mikael hayden, leadership coach
READY TO MAKE THE CROSSING?
Start with a conversation. No pitch. No pressure. Just an honest look at where you are and whether this is the right fit.